acceptable behavior

is it ok not to like (most of) your husband's friend's wives? is that illegal? i guess the more important question is: can mike deal live with the fact that i don't like most of them? i've never been in a clique or sorority, and i don't plan to start now. it's not that they're not nice (or most of them), it's just that we have nothing in common and i really don't care to try to find some small shred of commonality to be able to facilitate small talk once or twice a year when i see them. i guess that makes me a bad person.